Saturday, October 3, 2009

第一次....

仲有一個禮拜就係我同 Scarlet 一同踏進教堂開始新一頁之日子。心情好興奮,亦好期待。睇電視睇人結緍睇得多,去朋友緍禮去得多,所以擺酒菜單都差唔多識背。但係到自己嘅時候,先至能夠真正體會那種感覺。

我到而家依然好記得第一次返幼稚園,第一次上小學,第一次喜歡女孩子,第一次係醫院聯針,第一次說出傷害人的話....等等。這些事都留下好深的回憶,當中有很多起起落落和生命的轉捩點。
人生中有很多第一次,下星期是我第一次說我願意,我深信亦是最後的一次。=)

其實好多事情都係只得一次,包括人生,所以要常常提醒自己要愛惜光陰!

Monday, September 28, 2009

Love is...

4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8Love never fails.


Most of the time we hear this bible passage in wedding ceremony as a reminder to the bride and the groom, since love is one of the crucial elements in the marriage.

Surely Apostle Paul told us these not because of the love in marriage, and it is more about the love in our friends and families, in our neighbors, and in our community.
Action without Love is nothing... and quite meaningless (tastes like soda without carbon dioxide). If actions are all driven by responsibilities and obligations, it sounds more like a contract.

May I continue to learn how to love my community, my neighbors, my friends and families, so that this Love will also pertain in our love relationship.

We feel so blessed with all the loves around me and Scarlet!
Thank you for all your love!! =)

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Stupid ME =)

Lately we have been busy with distributing invitations and some invitations I would have to mail it out.
I guess I haven't mailed anything in a decades (probably!!).
So, it is finally the time that I can use up my leftover stamps which include all different kinds and some of those have a dragon graphics on it (for the year of Dragon, 生肖紀念郵票).

The current postage cost is 54 cents (Canada), 98 cents (US), and $1.65 (International).

The dragon's stamps has "47 cents" written on it, and I have some stamps that have "1" or "2" written on it. So I was thinking to use those 1 dollar stamp and send it to US, and 2 dollar stamp for Hong Kong (The extra is just for tips then... hah 心想唔駛煩嘛).

After a few weeks when I have almost used up my stamps, I went to the post office to get more and also mail some more invitations out. Oops, I found out that those 1 dollar and 2 dollar stamps are actually just 1 and 2 cents stamps! Huh >< !!
Hah... then I found out that mails with insufficient postage will be sent back to the return address. Nice, but I didn't write the return address either!!
Then they told me that those letters without return address will be sent to a place in Edmonton for people to claim it.... hah! Hm... nevermind.

Although lately is very busy especially at work (lots of OT), it is something funny for me to laugh at (本身唸著豪D,點知原來兩仙當兩蚊咁用!郵差叔叔,真係唔好意思啦。). =)

Monday, August 31, 2009

September is coming!! Time flies faster than I can imagine...

Time goes, went and gone... it is really faster than I can imagine.

Our wedding day is really getting close, and I am very excited while I am trying my best to enjoy every single busy moments (Yes, wedding prep is a long process and requires lots of organizing... I guess God is training my organizational skills again!!).

Recently, we went thru lots of our childhood photo (yes, it is cute!!) and there were lots of precious family moments, loving friends, etc etc. I thank everyone that walked into my life!

But, I can't deny that I am getting OLDer. Maybe my life has went half way already. As I am stepping into a married stage, God is helping me to reflect on myself a lots.

What should I focus on in the rest of our life?

Luke 12:34 - For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Finally, Photo is uploaded!!!

We finally uploaded the photo on web, feel free to check it out!

Pre-Wedding Photo

Engagement Photo

We apologize that it took us so long to post it. Hope that you enjoy! =)

Saturday, August 1, 2009

More pre-wedding & engagement photo coming up....

We will post up more photo soon! Stay tuned! =)
By the way, we are in the progress of planning our honeymoon trip to Japan!

Please let us know if you have any suggestions and comments!! Thanks!!

Wedding Party (Bride's)

.: Maid of Honor - Melaine Singh



What is your relationship with the bride and groom?
The bride is my sister, I knew her from the day I was born.
The groom is my going to be my brother-in law after October 10, 2009
I met Ringo back in 2007, when Scarlet introduced him as her boyfriend.

Tell me something about the bride and groom.
I'm not quite sure exactly how Scarlet and Ringo met, but I know it was either through mutual friends or church. Scarlet had been to going to Church since she was a teenager. She's definitely had changed churches for the past years. But as soon as she got to RCMBC, she seems to have found what she was looking for. It was probably half a year until I noticed she had met a lot of nice people and one of them is Ringo. They saw each other often and I believe a SPARK happened. I noticed Scarlet had a whole lot more laughter after she met Ringo. They have been together for a year and a bit and the good news was announced.

Scarlet might had a point in her life that she was lost in direction. She was leaving her home, Vancouver to Hong Kong intend to find a whole new career field. She was gone for a good half year (Scarlet: I know it seemed long to my dear sis, but I was only gone for 3 months..hehe), but something had told her to come back and she had joined RCMBC, and led her to many good things. She had also found her current job and now she is studying to increase her knowledge in that field.

I can tell Scarlet everything, because she is my sister. She might not always understand what I want to say, because I blab it all out at once. But she will always be there to listen. Even we don't talk everyday, she knows how much I love her.
All I really know about Ringo is that he is a computer geek and he can fix my computer just like that! He's a programmer for games... I know he's definitely someone you can rely on when you are in trouble. He can give good advises. I know Scarlet will find what she is looking for marrying Ringo, or she have already found it.
Scarlet and Ringo is always up for doing new things. They will go from wakeboarding and snowboarding to chilling night out for dinner or a drink.

.: Bridesmaid - Selina Lim



What is your relationship with the bride and groom and how did you know them?
I knew Ringo on the last day of Enoch Youth leadership Camp on the ferry ride back to Vancouver. He was wearing a tank top (Ringo: I guess she means muscle-tee! Hah!).
I knew Scarlet through Ringo at church. She was kind of blue when I first met her unlike the jolly lady she is now. I have known Ringo for about 6 years now and I have known Scarlet for about 2 years.

Tell me something about the bride and groom.
Scarlet is renown for her dramatic laughter that has an intonation that sounds like a melody. We can always count on her to laugh at our good and bad jokes, which really boosts our confidence. She's very sweet and usually makes unexpected comment at unexpected moments that makes us all laugh our heads off. From hearing her struggles in life and family, I have a lot of respect for her becoming such a sunny and fun-loving lady nowadays. She may look like a princess on the outside but she has a big heart.
I often praise God for the change He has made in Ringo's life. From a smoking young handsome guy who drove a flashy yellow car to a devoted (still young and handsome) Christ follower who lets God take his driver's seat, he's one of my best brothers in Christ. Even though he sometimes has teasing disorder, he has been the encouraging and discerning brother who helps me during my times of struggles and the influential man in his community. He just needs to cut and style his hair more often.